Emotional regulation is when
you are able to control the emotions you are feeling without for lack of better
word become “outgoing”. To me this becomes very important almost immediately in
life till the day you die because people don’t really want to be around those
who lose their mind simply. The initiative versus guilt came as a very
interesting concept I really had never heard of or thought about. Thinking how
at such a young age children become able to recognize when they need to be
initiative and do it for their parents to look upon them as if they
accomplished something rather significant. The guilt sets in when the child
does something that the parent is not particularly happy/content with. As said
in the book and when I think about it in life I can see how we understand how
we recognize those things frowned upon as guilt and making it thus likely to
not be a repeat offender of certain actions.
Pride in
children like we all had experienced while growing up is something that even
now you have those almost pessimistic thoughts saying you cant do something,
when you are that age all you do is think of yourself as a winner which is
something I wish we could all honestly hold onto without having anything affect
it.
Intrinsic
motivation is something that inside of us almost no matter how weird, odd,
stupid, normal, etc. that we all do to keep ourselves content or happy with who
we are and helps us with our own self perception. Extrinsic motivation is what
we all try to achieve by being a part of society such as doing things that will
make somebody else comment on that makes us feel good or have it be rewarding.
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